Reading. Why You Should Be Tolerant of Others 10-11

WHY YOU SHOULD BE TOLERANT OF OTHERS

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Tolerance is mainly known as a willingness to accept others and their beliefs,even if you don’t necessarily agree with them. That’s why tolerance is often used in terms of religion («I don’t agree with his beliefs, but I’m tolerant of them.») but I like to think of it more broadly. When I’m stuck on a train beside someone that’s driving me nuts, I don’t want to cause a scene by telling them to shut up and find a new seat. When I’m at a family gathering being bombarded by stories that I’ve already heard at the last five family gatherings, I don’t want to upset my relatives by being rude. I want to be tolerant of others and still keep my sanity.

WHY YOU SHOULD BE TOLERANT OF OTHERS

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It’s really easy to blow someone off as soon as they strike up a conversation with you — almost like you’re mentally rolling your eyes even though you’re nodding politely. For once, listen to what they’re saying — really listen. Don’t be put off by their appearance or the fact that someone else told you they’re a little weird. Listen to them, at least for awhile — we all want to be heard.

WHY YOU SHOULD BE TOLERANT OF OTHERS

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Now that you’re listening to someone, resist the urge to totally discount what they’re saying because it sounds «funny» or «weird» to you. If you’re not totally sure about the point they’re trying to make, ask them questions. Try to understand what they’re telling you — maybe they aren’t getting their point across as clearly as they think they are.