FAMILY MATTERS. Reading

a) The Achiever: This child will probably have more in common with others than their own brothers and sisters. Because they have had so much control and attention from their parents from early-on, they are overlyresponsible, reliable, well-behaved, careful, and smaller versions of their own parents. If you are this one, you are probably a high achiever who seeks approval, dominates, and is that perfectionist who uses up all of the oxygen in the room. You can be found in a leadership career such as law, medicine, or as a CEO.

b) The Life of the Party: If you’re this child, your parents are already confident in their role as caregiver, and don’t necessarily pay attention to your every move. Hence, you’ve learned how to tempt the crowd with charm and likeability. You have more freedom and, in a sense, are more independent. Such children often find careers in the entertainment business as actors, comedians, writers, directors, etc. They also make good doctors and teachers. Because your parents were more tolerant, you expect freedom to follow your own path in a creative style.

c) The Peacemaker: You are probably understanding, cooperative, flexible, and competitive. You are concerned with fairness. In fact, you are likely to pick an intimate circle of friends to represent your extended family. It is here that you will find the attention likely lacking in your family of origin. You find yourself in power careers that allow you to use your negotiating skills and get that all too-needed attention. Such children develop personality traits that help them succeed in jobs and relationships, even quicker than their siblings. They are team players and those wonderful social skills can prepare them for an entrepreneurial role on a large scene.

d) The Lone Wolf: You grow up surrounded by adults, and therefore are more verbal and often more mature. This allows for gains in intelligence that exceeds other birth order differences. You are resourceful, creative, and confident in your independence. You can enjoy the company of others as well as enjoying your own company. You have the privilege of having all your parents’ support and expectations on your shoulders.